29 October 2019

What is Narcissism?

Today I feels like I want to talk about narcissism. Not many of us aware that we are actually trapped in narcissism relationship, it's either we have the parents narcissistic or partner narcissistic.
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This morning I was watching the red topic regarding about narcissism by Dr Ramani. According to Dr Ramani, narcissism is actually self hate and narcissistic cannot be cured.
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There are four types of narcissism which is classic narcissism, Nobel narcissism, malignant narcissism and covert narcissism. Joker is one of the example for the covert narcissism. The most dangerous narcissism is the malignant narcissism as it is the last stage before they turned into physco.The truth is I've met this person with malignant narcissistic. I'm grateful that I already escape from it and it's horror experience.
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What is the sign of the narcissistic? There's a few sign of narcissistic which is lack of emphaty, distracted, and always talk about themselves. According to Dr Ramani, baby boomers (1948-1964) is the most narcissistic compare to the millennials (1981-1996). Warning signs you are in narcissism relationship is you feel the need to record conversation and write lengthy notes explaining yourself as narcissistic person always talk about themselves.
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The susceptible to narcissistic is insecure people from tough background, people pleaser who thinks they need to fix everything and people who give 2nd chances.
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Based on my experience, this person that I know, he is malignant narcissistic. He will manipulate someone with excessive attention which is love bombing. After that he will start to coercive control you which is the behaviour that causes fear, isolative and dependence. Alhamdulillah I already escape from it. The truth is narcissistic personality cannot be cured. The best way is to escape from it.
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More info about narcissism, can follow Dr Ramani. She's a qualified therapist.

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To watch the video, you can click here. 
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